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An Unruled Body

A Poet's Memoir

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In a searching and powerful debut memoir, award-winning poet and literary translator Ani Gjika tells a different kind of origin story by writing about the ways a woman listens to her own body, intuition, and desire.

Ani Gjika was born in Albania and came of age just after the fall of Communism, a time when everyone had a secret to keep and young women were afraid to walk down the street alone. When her family immigrates to America, Gjika finds herself far from the grandmother who helped raise her, grappling with a new language, and isolated from aging parents who are trying in their own ways to survive. When she meets a young man whose mind leans toward writing, as hers does, Ani falls in love—at least, she thinks it's love.

Set across Albania, Thailand, India, and the U.S., An Unruled Body is a young woman's journey to selfhood through the lenses of language, sexuality, and identity, and how she learns to find freedom of expression on her own terms.

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    • Kirkus

      October 1, 2023
      An Albanian American poet retraces the complex path to her sexual awakening. When she was 12, writes Gjika, she was raped on her way to school in Albania, where she grew up. As she recounts, it took two decades to talk to anyone about the trauma, during which time she married an Indian man named Ishan, who she met in an online poetry class. During their six-year marriage, the two never had sex, mostly because each time they tried, Gjika's body shut down with fear and pain. The author began to see a sex counselor named Jean, who, the author writes, "will become someone who teaches me to listen to language. I see her as a translator, a fellow linguistic traveler. She engages in deep listening the way I do when I translate poetry." The language Gjika hoped to learn was that of her own body. Under Jean's guidance, the author was able to face the toxic elements of her marriage that, she realized, stymied her attempts at intense physical intimacy. In the process of healing, she had a romantic flirtation with a high school crush and a more serious relationship with a man who had two grown children. Each experience led Gjika closer and closer to facing her trauma--and to her ultimate, triumphant decision to remain a single, fulfilled woman. The author's poetic prowess is clearly reflected in this text's lyrical, clean lines, as well as in her compassionate but critical analysis of every character of the story, including herself. Toward the end, the text meanders, lacking the tightly edited, perfect pacing of the first two-thirds. Overall, though, this is a gorgeously written look at a difficult topic. The book won the 2021 Restless Books Prize for New Immigrant Writing. A soulful, insightful memoir about an Albanian immigrant's quest to learn her body's language.

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      October 15, 2023
      Gjika, an immigrant and award-winning poet and translator, creates a startling and intimate record of her life as she simultaneously recounts her personal trauma and reveals the horrors confronting young women in post-Communist Albania. Following the death of dictator Enver Hoxha in 1985 (after he ruled for more than 40 years), an atmosphere of misogyny, sexual harassment, and assault pervaded the nation and Gjika, at 12, was raped in a vicious street encounter. She told no one, but when she later married, she and her husband never had sex, the long-term psychological damage serving as a laceration that left her frozen and gripped in pain during moments of physical intimacy. Slowly, determinedly, Gjika sought to heal. With the assistance of an intuitive sex therapist, she learned to listen to her body, and through her failed marriage (which suffered many other issues) and a series of increasingly successful romantic relationships, she found her way to a happy and fulfilled life. Readers will be impressed by the author's bold willingness to face the horrors of her childhood as she artfully blends an insightful look at her native country's societal issues with her own family's immigration story and her ongoing journey to sexual health. A poignant literary and personal achievement.

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